You Are Not Special…A Graduation Speech

I recently came across – for the first time – a graduation speech, given by a high school English teacher, that went viral last year.  I was obviously immune, because I never saw it, read about it, or heard about it from anyone.  The underlying message is powerful, and I wanted to share it with you.  It’s a great lesson for young adults beginning their journey outside of high school and college, but it’s also powerful advice for anyone, and a reminder that we are, in reality, just cogs of humanity.  We play an integral role in society, but no one more so than another.

Until you have the opportunity to watch the video, here are a few of my favorite quotes from the speech transcript:

The fulfilling life, the distinctive life, the relevant life, is an achievement, not something that will fall into your lap because you’re a nice person or mommy ordered it from the caterer.  You’ll note the founding fathers took pains to secure your inalienable right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness-quite an active verb, “pursuit”-which leaves, I should think, little time for lying around watching parrots rollerskate on Youtube.  The first President Roosevelt, the old rough rider, advocated the strenuous life.  Mr. Thoreau wanted to drive life into a corner, to live deep and suck out all the marrow.  The poet Mary Oliver tells us to row, row into the swirl and roil.”

Like accolades ought to be, the fulfilled life is a consequence, a gratifying byproduct.  It’s what happens when you’re thinking about more important things.  Climb the mountain not to plant your flag, but to embrace the challenge, enjoy the air and behold the view.  Climb it so you can see the world, not so the world can see you.  Go to Paris to be in Paris, not to cross it off your list and congratulate yourself for being worldly.  Exercise free will and creative, independent thought not for the satisfactions they will bring you, but for the good they will do others, the rest of the 6.8 billion-and those who will follow them.  And then you too will discover the great and curious truth of the human experience is that selflessness is the best thing you can do for yourself.  The sweetest joys of life, then, come only with the recognition that you’re not special.

Because everyone is. ~ David McCullough

 

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